I'm currently facing the challenge of eating outside the home. Since my work is in small spurts, I'm only away from home for four or five hours per day. That means I can make and eat most of my food at home. At work I just bring along a piece of fruit and a protein bar as a stopgap measure.
But today I went to work and from thence to Ikea to get a wardrobe to get my clothes more organized. I left around 9 am and returned around 6 pm--kind of like a normal workday.
So I faced the challenges of
Eating Away from Home.Preparation is still key.
At home, I prepare snacks like carrots in snack-sized bags which have calorie and fiber info on the sides.
You can also just weigh your prepared food so each serving has some round number of calories--50, 100, 150, 200, e.g.
I had brought an apple and a banana to work, along with a protein bar. (I should have brought a second one. I could have used it.)
Driving through Half Moon Bay en route to Ikea (the scenic way), I stopped at
Coastside Gourmet Coffee & Tea for one of their famous chai's. The owner would not make it for me with low fat milk, nor with Sweet'n'Low instead of sugar--bless him!
So I just accepted that it was preferable to have something delicious and special but fatty & sugary than to go across the street to Starbucks to the same nonfat latte you can get pretty much anywhere.
I considered having a salad at Ikea but wasn't that hungry.
Tip: hot liquids seem to be very filling. After a single (110-calorie) nonfat latte, I'm full for several hours.
In any case, I got home only having had two pieces of fruit and a protein bar at work, along with the chai.
I just counted the chai as 200 calories and gave up counting fat and protein for the rest of the day.
Instead, I started just rounding everything to 100 calories, and I still came out with only about 1300 calories that day.
I snacked on a little bit of low fat cottage cheese. Then dinner was some Knorr instant soup mix made with chicken broth and fresh ground pepper. I also had two whole wheat crackers, which brought the meal, with some carrots to crunch on, to an even 150 calories.
A desert of 2T of popcorn popped in 1 t. of oil added on another roughly 100 calories.
Some nice hot herbal tea made a light--you can say that again!--desert.
And the next day I woke up 1 1/2 pounds lighter. Mind you, I had stayed at 153 pounds for several days. Your body will do that. Decide one weight is the one to be, then realize after a few days' resistance that in fact it needs to lower your weight to match what you're eating.
Obviously, your body doesn't really have articulate thoughts like this. But that's the impression it gives.
So it can be done! You can eat outside the home and still lose weight. (The same day, even.)
You have to remember that hunger is not a cue to eat.
Your brain must tell you when and what to eat, not your body. Because you have a caveman's body, and it wants to be fat for the long winter. Don't listen!
--E. R. O'Neill